Showing posts with label Jesus Christ. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jesus Christ. Show all posts

Sunday, June 26, 2011

California, weddings, new diets, hangings-out

Oh yeah, and I had a birthday in there. Good times.

So I haven't written in a month, and thought I should make up for it. Hahaha. This is another really long post. Guess I just can't change my wordy nature.

Wedding

Well, we went to California for Rob and Michelle's wedding, and it was great.

Ummm.... didn't actually think they'd come out tiny like this. This must be because I'm not officially friends with their photographer on Facebook, and they come straight from her page. Well, you get the jist...

Flowers

Lol. I've been telling anyone who'll listen that I got to make this bouquet for Michelle, along with the boutonnieres, and she and I made the bridesmaids' bouquets together (mostly her). Facebook friends are, I'm sure, sick of hearing about it, but I just cannot tell you how much I enjoyed doing that for her. I wasn't sure I could do it, and except for a couple of mistakes, I did! I did some careful planning and tried to think how I'd put all the components together, tried to do it carefully, had to do some trial and error, and it worked!

Amazing satisfaction and joy. That's what it was.

I wish I were an author so I could express my feelings better. It means the world to me when people tell me I did a good job, but it's not just showing off--the discovery of a skill I proved to myself I do have, if not in a great degree, at least some?

Anyway. Babbling now. You'll just have to take my word for it. :)




Maybe I should have waited until I have access to big pictures? Probably.
There will be more then, anyway. For now, you can look at my Facebook page if we're friends on there.

So yeah, the wedding was stressful but fun. I can't believe how much I loved getting to play florist. I'm going to have to keep that filed away under "future possibilities." And did I mention how awesome it is to see a new family formed, and to see Rob & Michelle's happiness?

New Diet



We recently saw a very interesting documentary called "Fat Head" that's an answer to "Super Size Me," or rather a rebuttal. I highly recommend watching it; it's entertaining but also amazingly informative and thought-provoking. Jason and I and our two good friends, Matt and Jina, watched it together on the Netflix instant queue and have been talking about it a lot ever since.

A quick summary would be that America in general has been fed a load of "bologna," as comedian and former health writer Tom Naughton, the producer and star of the film, calls it: basically, fat is not the enemy, if it's a good kind of fat. Americans consume WAY too many carbohydrates (i.e., grains--maybe they're not as healthy as we think, even whole wheat and such) and too much sugar, not to mention processed fats like corn oil that aren't found in nature, and this is what's making us fat. Exercise also plays an important part, of course.

Jason, Matt and Jina were all so intrigued by it that they've been cutting their carbs way back--Jason and I bought bacon for the first time in I don't know how long, and I don't know what we'll do with all the breakfast cereal he's now spurning--and all three of them say that they feel amazingly better, energetic, light, etc., and that they've lost weight. I haven't been following it as closely, but I'm very intrigued, and I would love to hear any other opinions. If you have Netflix, again, you can watch it instantly. I'm going to try a little harder on it this week, and I'll let you know if we see some big results.

Jamie

Jamie has been kind of up and down lately, moody/fussiness-wise, but that's better than just being down. All in all, he's such a sweet and loving little guy, pretty obedient for the most part. The last few days when I've gone in to wake him up, he scrambles up as soon as he hears the door open, yells "Hi!!" and then says "Hi, mama!" He's talking up a storm now, and has become a little parrot, repeating practically everything we say. He loves crayons ("shash" -- he doesn't make "cuh" sounds yet), coloring books ("a-gur buh"), chocolate milk a.k.a. Instant Breakfast to fatten him up ("ah-get mill"), and smoothies ("bwadnah" -- no idea where he got that).

Some things he says very clearly, and he'll surprise me when he points to something and names it, and I don't know how he learned it, like "sweatshirt." He picks up on things even when we don't specifically go over it. He can say "shirt," "shorts," "knees," "elbow," and lots of other words clear as a bell. Oh, and the coolest thing is that since I made a sign with his name on it for his door, thanks to Sesame Street, he now can spell his name when you ask him to! He knows LOTS of letters and loves to say them whenever he sees them.

*****Just noticed the cat batting intently at something on the carpet. Went to investigate and found an earwig, NOT a scorpion. YAY. They haven't been as much a problem this year, so far.******

He likes to pray. We coach him, and he's gotten so he knows the rhythm, inserting things before we can tell him. It basically goes (our prompts, his repeat in brackets if they're different), "Father {fah-vor}, Please {meese} bless {bess} us. Thank you {beh-boo} for today {day}. Love mama, love dada, love Jesus {gee-gee}" and here's where he usually says "Gee-gee, a-main!" for "in the name of Jesus Christ, amen."

It's precious beyond belief, is what it is.

Jamie also likes to sing--He likes the la-la la-la la's of this classic song:



If I try to sing any other part of the song, he says, "Mama! Mama! Mama!" "What?" "La la laaa!" and then joins in the la-la's with me.

He also likes this classic LDS children's song:



Tradition goes that children in Primary bounce in their seats on the "-beam" parts of the song. We jump at our house. So during and after our singing, Jamie jumps around, going "suh-BING! Suh-BING!"

Jamie also loves nursery. He calls it "bubbo-zing" because he likes the bubbles they blow and singing time.

Life-Changing Challenge

A few years ago, President Gordon B. Hinckley, who was the prophet and president of our church at the time, asked the entire membership to read the Book of Mormon straight through before the end of the year--and I believe it was sometime in August when he said that. When he issued that challenge, in this {article}, he said:

"Without reservation I promise you that if each of you will observe this simple program, regardless of how many times you previously may have read the Book of Mormon, there will come into your lives and into your homes an added measure of the Spirit of the Lord, a strengthened resolution to walk in obedience to His commandments, and a stronger testimony of the living reality of the Son of God."

In May, the bishopric of my ward issued a similar challenge that they felt was what our ward needed, to read the Book of Mormon in 100 days. Since then, though I'm way behind, I've been trying very hard to at least read some every day. I have a very small BOM in my purse, and I've been pulling it out to read in waiting rooms, airport terminals while waiting to board, etc., while also trying to get my reading time in at home on a regular basis.

I wanted to share with you that the Book of Mormon has truly brought " into [our] home an added measure of the Spirit of the Lord" that has been noticeable, and wonderful. I know I've complained a lot about Jamie and what a handful he is on here, and how incredibly frustrated and even angry I get. I would get that way kind of a lot, to be honest. I wasn't happy with the kind of mother I was most of the time.

But since I've started reading the Book of Mormon, which I believe is scripture and another testament of Jesus Christ, a companion to the Bible, the difference has been staggering. Of course he still frustrates me at times, but my patience and love have increased tenfold, at least. Our home is so much more peaceful and loving, and when there is a flare-up, it's usually followed by a quiet and sincere apology, from me or Jason. I have felt much less pull toward things that don't invite the Spirit of the Lord, and I've felt so much more desire to be like Christ, and obey His commandments.

Now, when I put Jamie to bed at night, instead of dumping him in his crib because I just can't take him anymore, or quickly singing a song while being annoyed the whole and then going out and laying on my bed full of frustration for the demands he places on me, and wondering how I'll get through another day, I'm happy to be with him. If he needs something, I want to figure out what it is, instead of just being annoyed that he's bugging me. I tell him night-night and I love him, he snuggles in his bed and tells me "Nigh-nigh" and "sher-sher {love you} Mama" multiple times, and I close the door so full of love and gratitude for my son, it almost hurts. I can't tell you how much better this way is, and how much happier I've been.

I know I take a long time to explain things; I just want so much to get my feelings across accurately, and it's not easy. But I want to testify to anyone who reads this that reading the Book of Mormon with a pure heart and real intent will bring you closer to Christ, and make you so much happier and more peaceful. It really is that simple.

I've felt for a couple of days now that I needed to share this--if it's doing so much good in my life, it only makes sense to want others to experience it, too.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Family visit pics and videos

My parents and brother Rob came out here to the surface of the sun (my Halloween socks are going back in the decorations box without being worn once--still too hot :( ) to visit us a couple of weeks ago now, and I've been overdue on posting the pictures! All the credit goes, once again, to Rob--it's easier to just mooch off his work, since he's an avid picture-taker and I'm a slacker.

Just so you know, these are a bit mixed up, but you get the idea.

Jamie's evil laugh, where he throws back his head and sounds like a mad scientist or something.




My fam was here from Thursday to Tuesday, and on Sunday evening we went to the Mesa temple visitors' center. See Jamie reaching up to the beautiful statue of Jesus? (Saying "dat-un, dat-un," his word for nearly everything these days.)

P.S., I am so dang excited for the Christmas lights at the temple to be completed! We've gone over to help put some up once so far, and apparently the display is comparable to Temple Square in Salt Lake City at Christmas time, which I've only gotten to see once. I LOVE LOVE LOVE Christmas lights, and the temple is beautiful anyway, so what a great combination--without the cold!

Anyone want to come visit and see them??

The Mesa temple, with its beautiful reflecting pool. This temple was completed in 1927.

One afternoon Rob, Jason, Jamie and I went to a nearby state park (which we didn't even know about, Rob looked it up) called The Lost Dutchman Park. We didn't stay long, since it was warm and turned out to be not the best play area for a 20-month-old, but it was cool scenery.

Rob got this ^ really cute picture on the way there.

Walkin' down one of the paths.

Some of the Arizona scenery

Whaddya think, should this be our Christmas card this year? Maybe we should go back and get more of a close-up.

Jamie and Grandpa. Jamie so enjoyed having more people around to show off for! (And yeah, Jamie does spend a fair amount of time in pajamas if we're not going anywhere.)

One of many cute pictures with Unca Rob

and with Grandma!


Jamie is the pickiest eater ever in his high chair, but he's such a little beggar with our food, practically no matter what it is.

The night before they went back, we tried to have a nice dinner at Black Angus, but it was the same day as we went to the park, so Jamie was tired and didn't last long. We appreciated it, though!




Thanks for visiting, family! We're so looking forward to coming to California for Christmas!

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Jamie moments

This is another one of those posts that I do mostly for my own record-keeping, but also for those of you who like to hear how and what my little one is doing. (I know it's probably not all of you. No offense taken.)

First off, we had our third Family Home Evening in a row last night; we liked the way we did it before, where we have a very simple theme, we very simply explain it (like, "This is the TEMPLE, Jamie! This is Heavenly Father's and Jesus' house! Can you say 'temple'?"), sing a song or two from the Children's Songbook about the theme--the second one totally made me cry--and say a prayer. It's working for us. Jamie tried to say "Jesus" and "temple" last night, and pointed at pictures of both. So, so sweet. FHE truly makes a difference in our home. We can feel the Spirit more strongly.

Today, I was in Jamie's room and I asked him, "Where's Jesus?" The picture of Jesus in our living room, which he had last focused on (last night), is in the left corner of that room. The one in Jamie's room is in the right corner. So Jamie first looked to the left corner, saw nothing, kept looking farther left, and saw the "INHALATION HAZARD" sign with the skull and crossbones above his changing table, pointed, and said a bit of jibberish that I can only assume meant "Jesus."

I texted that one to Jason. He thought it was pretty funny.

Btw, can I brag on that inhalation hazard sign for a sec? When we moved, I was in the ABF trucking office waiting to have the trailer unlocked or something, and let's just say it was not like a doctor's office. There was a cardboard box of such signs sitting under the counter by me, and I saw that sign and mentioned to the guy that I'd love to have it for my son's changing table. He said to take it. I admit, I'm proud of myself for that thing, and boy, is it fitting...

I was finally able to take Jamie for his 18-month checkup on Friday--it's taken that long to get his insurance squared away. I believe he was 22 1/2 lbs and about 33 inches. Really low percentile for weight, and a bit higher than average for height. He got one shot and didn't cry for more than a minute or two. He did get a whopping, scary fever that night, though--over 103. He felt like he just came out of the oven! We nearly rushed him to the ER, but called our Medical Assistant friend, Jina, to ask for advice, and she saved us a trip. Tip: if a fever is not SUPER high and it's the only symptom, the hospital folks can't do much more than you can at home. Once the Tylenol kicked in and Jamie had a lukewarm bath (which he HATED), he was better, though the fever hung around for another day.

This morning I woke up, realized Jamie would be waking soon, and jumped in the shower so I could at least be mostly finished before he woke up. Just as I turned off the water, I heard the first, "Aaah?" on the monitor. But that baby let me dry off, get dressed, do my hair, and put on my makeup (not an everyday occurrence), chattering to himself the whole time and hardly fussing. When I did go in to get him, he was standing in his crib, and he grinned at me and started marching in place with his adorable, sweet little feet, apparently so cheerful and happy to see me that he felt like dancing.

Jamie mostly hates to have his diapers (or dipees, as we call them) changed, and also fights going to bed. If I pick him up around bedtime, he'll reach with both arms for daddy, with an imploring, "Aaah? Aaah?" That's his pick-me-up thing. It's hard to resist. So I'll give him to Jason, he'll start to head upstairs with Jamie, and when Jamie sees this, he does the imploring thing back at me, trying to get someone to save him. It's so funny. He'll also do this to strangers at church, hoping they'll let him run free all over the chapel. He's gotten a lot better about his church behavior, though, and does better in nursery every week.

When it was nearly time for his nap today, he pulled the blanket I made him out of his crib through the slats and spread it over his lap, which I've never seen him do. I picked him up and he immediately put his head on my shoulder and cuddled against me. Sigh. Sometimes I wish he didn't have to grow up. Taking care of a toddler is challenging, but he is so sweet and innocent at this age.

Words Jamie at least tries (or has tried) to say, that we recognize:

Mama (usually it's "Mam" lately)
Dada, Dai-ee
Boat ("Bo")
Gross ("Gro," after me teasing him about a stinky diaper, but that was just once)
Cow sound ("Booo")
Doggie ("Dai-yah")
Temple (I have no idea how to spell how it sounded...)
Jesus (Ditto...)

Yeah, he has a ways to go on accuracy, but we're just glad he's finally trying. :)

Monday, July 12, 2010

A special experience that I want to remember


This is the picture in Jamie's room, called "Consider the Lilies."


This is the picture of Christ we have in our living room. (details here)

Jamie has a picture of Christ with two children in his bedroom, and for the last few weeks, I've tried to remember to periodically take Jamie to the picture and point out "Jesus." He smiles, points also, and makes a sweet, questioning-sounding "Aaahh?" as he does so. (He makes the same sound when he points to other things I've just pointed out.) This morning, I thought for the first time to do the same thing with the picture of Christ in our living room. I pointed, said "Jesus" a few times, and Jamie smiled and pointed at Him.

Tonight Jason and I decided to have a quick, non-planned Family Home Evening before we put Jamie to bed, because we're usually slackers and don't do it at all. So we thought we'd start by singing a hymn, "Choose the Right." Jamie liked that, dancing, clapping, and generally running around happily while we sang.

When we had sung all three verses, we decided that it had been so nice, and we could feel the Spirit in the room so clearly, that we would sing another one. (This usually happens when we sing a hymn.) As we were talking about which one to sing next, all of a sudden, Jamie went over to the corner wall, looked up, pointed at the picture of Christ, and said, "Aaaahhh?"

That was the first time he'd paid attention to it today, besides the once when I pointed it out--and we spent most of the day in the living room.

It's amazing what will come "out of the mouths of babes." It was no coincidence--we felt it--that Jamie chose that moment to point to the picture of Jesus, Whose name is not specifically mentioned in "Choose the Right," but Whom it is about, and Whose Spirit it invites.



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